By Don R. Richards, published in The Banner of Love, May 2003
I remember my father’s hands.
There was always a slight
fascination I had watching my father and his hands.
We all have special, perhaps
unusual, things we remember of
our parents or other special people. I
have a special remembrance of my father’s hands.
I can see his hands right now.
My memory, which is not always my best feature, is
very clear though of a picture of his hands.
I grew up in the back shop of a
small town newspaper office. Most
readers remember my dad for his ministry, but I remember his also as a
community newsman and a printer. He
had learned the trade from his father and grandfather.
In those days before modern
computer technology, all printing was done by the “hot type” method
utilizing machines which made raised lines of type on a metal slug. The metal
was hot when it first came out of the machine and you had to be adept at
handling hot and melting metal and printer’s ink.
Throughout the week, his hands
were nearly always stained with printer’s ink.
He was required to wash
with gasoline, followed by a tough coarse soap.
As a result, the rough texture of his hands indicated their manual use
as a printer.
One of my father’s favorite
practical jokes was to hand to a bystander a line of hot metal type
immediately after it came out of the machine.
His hands were hardened by the years of handling hot type, and he could
hold the hot metal in his hand very calmly and innocently hand it off to the
unknowing bystander. He never let
it be hot enough to cause injury, but the victim would take a firm grasp on
the metal, and then quickly drop it.
He taught my brothers and I how
to carefully handle the hot type with out getting burned.
He knew the importance of gently handling a dangerous object.
Although he wouldn’t indicate
it openly, his arms and hands were strong from daily lifting the huge, heavy
metal pages to carry them to the printing press. He believed in a strong, firm
handshake and he had the ability to deliver one. While the three of us sons enjoy an annual tradition with dad
of target practice we preferred rifles, but dad
was most adept with a pistol. The
three of us couldn’t hold the pistol steady enough, but his firm, steady
grip allowed him to out shoot us.
My mother used to tell me that
my dad’s hands once saved my life. Those
who know me remember that I lost three fingers in a childhood accident when,
at age two, I stuck my fingers into the gears of one of my father’s printing
presses. We live almost and hour
from the nearest hospital. In
those days before power steering, my dad drove to the hospital with his left
hand, as the strength of his right hand was used as a tourniquet on my lower
arm to prevent my death by massive blood loss.
He would never discuss or even
hint at the strength of his own arms and hands, and I never saw him raise a
fist in anger. But, he was
well known for his preaching style of utilizing a clenched fist to indicate
the power of the Lord.
I always placed special
significance on the talents the Lord blessed him with through his hands.
He knew when the strength of his hands was important and when to
emphasize that strength, yet he could be most delicate with an object that
required caution and tenderness.
I remember times when his calming hand and gentle squeeze on my shoulder
meant more than a thousand words. And
I fondly remember his squeeze of my hand as I stood by his deathbed.
Special significance is placed in our society by the use of
the hands to provide comfort and stability.
One known insurance company uses as a sales slogan that with them you are
“in good hands”.
I am reminded of all this when I
look at the emphasis in the Bible to the use and description of the use of the
Lord’s hands. Numerous times
reference in made to the Lord’s hands.
It is meant to imply strength, power, comfort and security.
It implies ultimate authority:
“And, Thou, Lord, in the beginning hast laid the foundation of the earth; and
the heavens are the works of thine hands.” Hebrews 1:10.
As Christ was about to die on the
cross, he cried out: “Father, into thy hands I commend my spirit.”
Luke 23:46
We are given the security of the
Lord’s unconditional love and of our eternal salvation with the picture
painted at Isaiah 49:14-16 where Israel fears its God has forgotten it, but we
are taught that God’s love is stronger and superior even than a woman for her
infant child:
“Can a woman forget her sucking
child, that she should not have compassion on the son of her womb? Yes, they may
forget, yet I will not forget thee. Behold I have graven thee upon the palms of
my hands, thy walls are continually before me.”
And Jesus tells us of the
security of the unfailing, irreversible, and unchanging grace of the Lord for
His people: “My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me.
And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither
shall any man pluck them out of my hand. My
Father, which gave them to me, is greater than all, and no man is able to pluck
them out of my Father’s hand. I
and my Father are one.” John
10:27-30.
I cannot think of my dad’s
hands without thinking of the security the Lord provides to us symbolic through
the use of His hands. Even the old
gospel song, a favorite of my mother’s, gives us the security of
“the Touch of the Master’s Hand” and the comfort and security of
feeling the touch of the Lord’s hand during a trying time.
The Lord’s has provided me comfort and security in strong memory through His touch of my father’s hands.